Nicole Huiras v. Nathan Huiras

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Appeal No. 2022AP1731 Cir. Ct. No. 2021FA592

STATE OF WISCONSIN IN COURT OF APPEALS
DISTRICT II

IN RE THE FINDING OF CONTEMPT IN:

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF:

NICOLE HUIRAS,

PETITIONER-RESPONDENT,

V.

NATHAN HUIRAS,

RESPONDENT-APPELLANT.

APPEAL from an order of the circuit court for Racine County:
KRISTIN M. CAFFERTY, Judge. Affirmed.
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¶1 GUNDRUM, P.J.1 Nathan Huiras appeals from an order of the
circuit court finding him in contempt for harassment of Nicole Huiras2 in violation
of court orders dated October 19, 2021, and July 1, 2022. Nathan asserts the court
erroneously exercised its discretion with this finding. For the following reasons,
we disagree and affirm.

Background

¶2 As relevant, in this divorce case, the circuit court entered two orders
prohibiting Nathan from harassing Nicole. The October 19, 2021 order ordered
Nathan to contact Nicole only through Our Family Wizard and “not to harass
[Nicole].” On May 27, 2022, Nicole filed a motion for contempt, asserting that
Nathan violated the court’s order by contacting her utilizing methods other than
Our Family Wizard and by harassing her. The court granted the motion on July 1,
2022.3 The court ordered that Nathan “shall have no contact with [Nicole] outside
of Our Family Wizard. [Nathan] shall pay [Nicole]’s attorney’s fees with regard
to this motion for contempt. Future violation of this order shall subject [Nathan]
to 30 days in the Racine County Jail for every event and a fine of $500 for each
event.” The court stayed the sanctions.

¶3 On September 21, 2022, Nicole sought an order lifting that stay. She
asserted, as relevant here, that Nathan submitted a harassing Our Family Wizard

1
This appeal is decided by one judge pursuant to WIS. STAT. § 752.31(2)(h) (2021-22).
All references to the Wisconsin Statutes are to the 2021-22 version unless otherwise noted.
2
Despite the informality, for simplicity’s sake, we will hereafter refer to Nathan Huiras
as “Nathan” and Nicole Huiras as “Nicole.”
3
We can locate no transcript in the record for this hearing. The order memorializing the
circuit court’s oral ruling was signed by the court on September 21, 2022.

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message to her on August 29, 2022. The court agreed the message constituted
harassment, lifted the stay and found Nathan in contempt, ordering him arrested
and committing him to the county jail for thirty days. Nathan paid the $1,500
purge condition, also ordered by the court, and was released from custody. Nathan
appeals.

Discussion

¶4 We review de novo whether the circuit court followed proper
procedures in exercising its contempt power. Evans v. Luebke, 2003 WI App
207, ¶16, 267 Wis. 2d 596, 671 N.W.2d 304. “A circuit court’s contempt decision
is discretionary and will be affirmed if the court reached a reasonable decision
after applying the proper legal standards to the relevant facts.” Society Ins. v.
Bodart, 2012 WI App 75, ¶7, 343 Wis. 2d 418, 819 N.W.2d 298. Whether a
contempt of court occurred is a question of fact, which we uphold unless it is
clearly erroneous. Oliveto v. Circuit Ct. for Crawford Cnty., 194 Wis. 2d 418,
427, 533 N.W.2d 819, 823 (1995).

¶5 The circuit court lifted its earlier stay of contempt sanctions due to
the August 29, 2022 Our Family Wizard message Nathan sent Nicole. In that
message, Nathan indicates Nicole is “delusional,” suggests she should be
evaluated for a “personality disorder,” which is causing her to be a “sociopathic
and abusive” mother, blames her for causing an “attachment injury” which will
result in “behavioral issues” in their children, accuses her of playing “abusive and
damaging” games with the children’s lives, and states that she is “living a lie.”
The court found that the Our Family Wizard message constituted harassment as
defined in WIS. STAT. § 813.125(1)(am)4.b., i.e., “[e]ngaging in a course of

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conduct or repeatedly committing acts which harass or intimidate another person
and which serve no legitimate purpose.”

¶6 Nathan cites numerous cases, but he fails to develop any argument
as to how the cases would lead us to the conclusion that the circuit court erred in
either finding him in contempt under WIS. STAT. § 785.03(1)(a) or in finding he
committed harassment by the August 29, 2022 Our Family Wizard message to
Nicole. His appeal fails for this reason alone, as we do not consider insufficiently
developed arguments. See Industrial Risk Insurers v. American. Eng’g Testing,
Inc., 2009 WI App 62, ¶25, 318 Wis. 2d 148, 769 N.W.2d 82 (“[W]e will not
abandon our neutrality to develop arguments [for a party]”.). While we recognize
that Nathan is pro se, he is still required to abide by the same rules governing
attorneys. See Waushara County v. Graf, 166 Wis. 2d 442, 452, 480 N.W.2d 16
(1992). Furthermore, Nathan’s precise position on appeal is difficult to decipher.
It appears, however, that he is asserting that the court could only hold him in
contempt pursuant to § 785.03(1)(b), involving punitive sanctions. A review of
the record shows that the court here held him in contempt pursuant to
§ 785.03(1)(a), involving remedial sanctions, and Nathan fails to develop a
sufficient argument to convince us the court erred in doing so.4

4
WISCONSIN STAT. § 785.03(1)(b) involves the district attorney, attorney general or a
special prosecutor “issuing a complaint”—something that was not done in the case now before us.
The court’s order here tracks the language of § 785.03(1)(a), as the contempt here, consistent with
the language of this paragraph, was initiated by Nicole as “a person aggrieved by [Nathan’s]
contempt of court,” who “s[ought] imposition of a remedial sanction for the contempt by filing a
motion for that purpose in the proceeding to which the contempt is related.”

(continued)

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¶7 In July 2022, the circuit court found that Nathan had failed to
comply with the October 2021 order not to harass Nicole, but it stayed the
sanctions.5 Then, with Nathan’s August 29, 2022 posting on Our Family Wizard,
the court agreed by its September 21 order to lift that stay to “ensure compliance
with a prior order of the court”—i.e., to ensure Nathan stopped harassing Nicole.
See WIS. STAT. § 785.04(1)(d). As the court made clear, after going through the
history of the case and explaining in detail Nathan’s conduct towards Nicole, it
was Nathan’s “behavior that has put you here,” and he needed “consequences for
your behavior” because it needed to stop and “the only thing that I can do is put
you in custody.” The court added:

It is my belief that without further court intervention,
[Nathan] is pushing to see how far he can go and I am
pushing back. So I am lifting the stay of contempt. I am
finding that this Our Family Wizard post that [Nathan]
made on August 29, 2022, Exhibit B to the affidavit to lift
the stay, is a violation of the court’s order. I am going to
order that [Nathan] have consequences for that.”

¶8 Nathan’s undeveloped contentions include his assertion that
“harassment” requires “bodily harm” or a “true threat.” “Harass,” however, means
“to worry and impede by repeated attacks, to vex, trouble or annoy continually or

The transcript from the September 21, 2022 hearing and the related signed order indicate
the circuit court found Nathan in contempt because he “intentionally and without legal
justification failed to comply with a court order,” specifically by harassing Nicole “in violation of
court orders dated 10/19/2021 and 7/1/2022,” in which Nathan was directed not to harass Nicole.
The court’s September 21 order states that it is a “[r]emedial [s]anction[],” and the court ordered
that for Nathan to purge the contempt and avoid the ordered thirty days in jail, he would have to
pay $1,500 to “Attorney Jessica Grundburg Client Trust Account[].” The court explained at the
related September 21 hearing that the payment would “go toward” Nicole’s attorney’s fees.
5
In addition to the circuit court’s October 2021 order prohibiting Nathan from harassing
Nicole, WIS. STAT. § 767.117(1) also prohibits each party “in an action affecting the family,” as
here, “from … (a) [h]arassing … the other party.”

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chronically, to plague, bedevil or badger.” Bachowski v. Salamone, 139 Wis. 2d
397, 407, 407 N.W.2d 533 (1987) (citing Harass, WEBSTER’S THIRD NEW
INTERNATIONAL DICTIONARY (1961)). Alternatively, harass means “to create an
unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal
or physical conduct.” Harass, MERRIAM-WEBSTER DICTIONARY,
https://www.merriam-webster.com/harass (last visited Apr. 14, 2023). We see no
requirement of “bodily harm” or a “true threat.” Considering the latter dictionary
definition, Nicole writes that Nathan’s August 29, 2022 message “create[s] an
unpleasant or hostile situation for” her, and the circuit court agreed in light of prior
harassing conduct by Nathan in this divorce case. Again, Nathan fails to
sufficiently develop an argument that the circuit court erred in so concluding.

¶9 As the appellant, Nathan bears the burden on appeal to demonstrate
how the circuit court erred. See Gaethke v. Pozder, 2017 WI App 38, ¶36, 376
Wis. 2d 448, 899 N.W.2d 381. He has not met this burden.6

By the Court.—Order affirmed.

This opinion will not be published. See WIS. STAT.
RULE 809.23(1)(b)4.

6
In his appellate briefing, Nathan briefly requests many things of this court and makes
many contentions without developing any related arguments. Thus, to the extent we have not
addressed any particular “issue” he “raises” in his briefing, it is deemed denied. See State v.
Waste Mgmt. of Wis., Inc., 81 Wis. 2d 555, 564, 261 N.W.2d 147 (1978).

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